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Garden weddings are lovely celebrations. There is something so welcoming about a gathering in a garden. If youre considering hosting a garden wedding but are not sure about renting out a venue, rest assured that you can definitely use your backyard! Planning and hosting a garden wedding can be totally enjoyable with the right attitude and approach.

My husband and I were married in the summer of 2015 in our backyard. Before we started planning our wedding, we thought a lot about how we wanted the day to feel. It was important to me that our guests have a great, memorable time. It was also important that we not feel stressed about spending too much money on a single party. Most of all, we wanted to feel surrounded and supported by those we loved.

We decided to host a relaxed event where our friends and family could be themselves and have a good time while still having a special celebration. Hosting the wedding in our backyard seemed like the perfect fit!

This post detailshowwe hosted our garden wedding. To check out the pretty pictures of how everything turned out, visitthis post about our wedding.

There are some key things to think about when planning a garden wedding:

This post explains how we dealt with each of these things to put together an easy celebratory day for ourselves and our friends and family.

Before getting into the other details, it should be noted that getting some help hosting a wedding is definitely not optional. Hopefully you have some supportive friends and family who can help you out before the wedding and possibly even during and after. If youre considering hosting a garden wedding, ask some friends and family for help with things theyd enjoy doing. Theyll likely help out if theyd like to be part of your wedding. If theyre not into it, be prepared for suggestions that you should elope 😉

Its possible to do an entire wedding DIY-style, but we found we had a much more relaxed day when we hired out the key day-of activities. For instance, we did DIY decor but had a flower farmer put together bridal bouquets. We did DIY appetizers and drinks but had a local restaurant cater the dinner meal. Do what you can before the date, but dont be afraid to hire professionals to help you with the things that really do need to go right on the day (and that you just dont have time to do yourself when youre in your fancy clothes!).

I was so fortunate to have a wonderful bridal party who each took on an area of responsibility to make sure everything went smoothly. One bridesmaid supervised the food, another took on decor, and a groomsman looked after our equipment rentals. There is no way I could have micro-managed each detail within those categories on the day-of while also getting my hair done

The morning after the wedding, we were incredibly fortunate to that our family and friends helped clean up. If youve ever cleaned up after a BBQjust imagine the mess after a party with over 100 people!Im so grateful to have had the dedicated help of my friends and family before, during, and after the wedding. If youre so lucky, thank these people over and over again. Theyre really who make the wedding event possible!

I admit that we are pretty fortunate to have a large yard. We had our wedding of 100 guests plus the wedding party on our 0.4 acre city lot (thats our total lot size, so the yard is maybe half of that once the house/driveway/garage/utility areas are subtracted). If we had a smaller yard, we simply wouldnt have been able to invite that many people. They would not have fit!

Yard size is a great excuse to keep your guest list small if youre having a garden wedding. To get a feel for how many guests youll be limited to, get some chairs from around the house and place them outside. Mock up a few tables and plan the routes that your guests will be taking. When youre planning the wedding, its easier to invite more people in an effort to appease everyone. When youre actually getting ready for the day and during the day itself, its way easier to have fewer guests! Decide which is more important to you before finalizing the guest list.

Although we had sunny skies for most of our garden wedding celebration, there was also a crazy rainstorm for about 15 minutes right in the middle of the party. It had been so hot all day, but just as dinner was ending, the rain started pouring (accompanied by some rather strong winds). That was definitely not in the plan! But hey, it all worked out fine.

If you are planning a garden wedding, you NEED to have a backup rain plan. This should include what to do in case of just a few drops as well as what to do if a complete rainstorm moves in. Its extra work and potentially extra money, but youll be so much more relaxed in the days leading up to the party.

This is my husband during the middle of our reception dealing with all of the branches that came down during the freak rainstormoh wellless pruning to do! Photo Courtesy of Lightwell Photo )

We chose to rent the church that is immediately next to our house as a backup venue in case it was a totally rainy day. The church offered a package where their minister would officiate our ceremony, plus we could use the church for the ceremony if required. We also used the church for parking and for bathrooms for our guests. We likely could have used our house bathroom and street parking if we had fewer guests, but with 100 peoplethe church next door was a much better option.

The church next door also had fridges and a kitchen but we didnt end up using them. A family friend lent us some fridges to put in our garage and the restaurant brought the food already prepared. It was nice to have backup amenities at the church though.

The great part about having a garden party for your wedding is that most of the decor is already dealt with in the form of the garden itself! We did buy a few new plants for our wedding, and I did spend a lot of hours getting the garden ready, but all of that investment is still paying off today.

One big, basic item that we needed for the garden wedding was a dance floor. We wanted to have a sturdy ceremony surface that also acted as a central hub during the reception. We also wanted a dance, and having a dance floor just made it seem so much more fun.

Fortunately my hubby, brother, and dad are very handy and were able to whip up a huge ceremony surface/dance floor one morning the week before the wedding. They framed it up with 2 x 4 boards and sheeted it with sustainably-sourced plywood. It was definitely so much fun to have!

As a vertical backdrop for our ceremony, I kept it simple and just bought 2 large pieces of white linen. We draped them from the treehouse in the backyard to create a simple backdrop. It wasnt the fanciest thing, but it did create a focal point.

As a gardener, the flowers at our wedding were very important to me! I wanted local, organic, sustainably-sourced flowers (of course.), and was willing to pay a bit more for them. We connected with a lovely local farmer who provided beautiful dahlias and greenery for the bridal bouquets, boutonnieres, and a few decor pieces. She made a stunning wreath from succulents and greenery for the front of our house, as well as some lovely table runners featuring the Cafe Au Lait dahlias that were in season during our wedding. It was well worth it!

Perhaps my favourite floral decoration at our wedding wasnt the flowers we purchased, but was actually made by two of my aunts. My aunts made a gorgeous dark green foliage swag for the front of our house. It made the whole property feel so festive!

Rather than planning the day according to tradition, we decided to plan the day in a way that best suited our guests. We were inviting a large number of guests (100 guests in the end) and we wanted them to have a great time. If we werent focused on our guests, we would just have eloped.

We decided to host the wedding in the late afternoon. It can get very hot in the summer where we live, so having an earlier wedding would have meant hours of uncomfortable outdoor heat for our guests. We also did not want our guests to have to spend the entire day at our wedding. By starting in the late afternoon/early evening, we gave our guests a chance to spend the day at the beach or with their families prior to attending our wedding.This also allowed same-day travel time for some out-of-towners possibly saving them the expense of an extra night in a hotel.

At this point I should mention one of my pet peeves about weddings its when arriving at a wedding doesnt feel like arriving at a celebration. Since were not particularly religious, our wedding was basically a party to celebrate a marriage. It is totally possible to have a wedding/marriage without a big ceremony and receptionso if youre going to have a big party at your wedding, you might as well make itfeel like a party.

So why am I mentioning this? Why is it that when you show up at a party youre generally greeted, brought into the party, and usually offered a drink immediately. At a wedding however, you often have to find your own way to the ceremony location and then wait over an hour before getting even a glass of water!? This is crazy to me. I might be alone in that, but hey, its how I feel.

If I invite people over to my house, especially to the yard under the blazing sun, Im going to offer them a drink when they arrive. At our wedding, guests were greeted in the front yard with a welcome drink of sparkling water or prosecco and then escorted to the ceremony location in the backyard by the junior attendants and groomsmen.

We kept things from getting out of hand alcohol-wise by having my hilarious and also kind-of strict high-school french teacher serve the drinks. She is amazing. Most of our guests know and love her, and were definitely not about to down a half-dozen drinks with that supervision. It worked out really well! If youre having a party at your weddingplease have someone wonderful there to properly greet your guests as they arrive!

This photo was taken at noona full 4 hours before our ceremony began! Thank goodness my friends were ok with getting ready early 🙂 Photo Courtesy of Lightwell Photo )

Another careful choice we made was to take the majority of the wedding photos prior to the ceremony. This meant getting ready sooner in the day, but then we werent worried about leaving the party after the ceremony to have photos taken. Our friends and family came from all over the country to hang out with us on our special day. The last thing we wanted to do was leave the party to take photos when we had so many family and friends gathered together!

So what is the point of all this wedding timeline talk? Basically, my thought on the matter is that if youre going to invite guests to your wedding (or any party), its courteous to think about their needs and their comfort in all stages of planning, including the timeline. These are your most treasured friends and familytreat them that way!

As expected, we used a spreadsheet to organize the wedding. This included the budget, actual spend, task lists and other various items. We colour-coded tasks were colour-coded based on category and sorted by the person responsible for the task. The screen pic above is from a working version of one of the earlier spreadsheets..its definitely not perfect but it worked.

It sounds obsessive to organize your wedding with spreadsheets, and to be honest, it is. The spreadsheet format did make it really easy to add tasks, edit tasks, and print out lists for people. If youre really wanting to host your own backyard wedding without a wedding planner, youd be well off to get real comfortable with spreadsheets 🙂

Rather than going for formal invites, we decided to send e-vites for our wedding. This choice was aligned with our goal of not wanting to feel stressed about spending too much money on a single day (and a single party). Having formal mailed save-the-date cards and invites would have been lovely, and Im sure I would have enjoyed designing them, but it just wasnt important enough to justify the cost of designing, printing, and mailing them.

I designed a simple graphic email with a lot of help of my aunt. She is a graphic designer so I definitely lucked out there. I also set up a simple website for our wedding. The email invite contained the basics while further details were found on the website. The site included directions to our house, hotel booking info, bios of our wedding party, and info about local attractions and favourite restaurants.

We did choose to mail thank you cards, as it was important to me to properly thank our guests with hard-copy posted cards. I was able to get a great deal online (Zazzle) with a coupon code and order some thank you cards that matched our theme.

One area that we did not skimp on was photography. One of our main goals was to create a memorable celebration to start our marriage surrounded by those we loved. Having clear photos to look back on was a key part of maintaining this goal in the future.

Prior to our wedding, I researched tons of photographers. I was looking for a casual style that could capture the feeling of the event rather than a formal photographer who focused on typical wedding shots. In the end, we hired a trusted local photographer and his team to shoot both photos and video of our wedding. I am SO glad that we invested in this, even though it was a significant cost. Its important to pick a photographer that you like because youll be spending most of your wedding day with them!

Planning what to wear for a garden party wedding can be very tricky! For our guests, we didnt set a dress code. We just asked everyone to wear whatever they felt best or most comfortable in. Having our guests feel comfortable enough to enjoy themselves was a key goal for us, so setting a dress code for a backyard party didnt make a lot of sense. I hate being told what to wear. Finding the right thing for an outdoor summer wedding can be so tricky in the first place without extra specific instructions from the bride.

For the wedding party, we did make an attempt to coordinate. My husband and his groomsmen wore suits that were either grey or navy. The groomsmen already had suits in these shades so they didnt have to purchase anything new for the wedding.

For my bridesmaids, we went shopping together at a regular clothing store that I knew carried lots of dresses in similar cream shades. They each picked something they felt best in. It was more affordable for me to buy these dresses for them since they were from a regular clothing store (not a wedding boutique), plus they didnt get stuck with a bridesmaids dress made of bad polyester.

For my wedding dress I first went shopping at some incredible dress stores in the big city. Of course I tried on some stunning dresses that cost thousands of dollars. It was fun, I have to admit, but it just didnt make sense in the end. I had saved up the money for the wedding, but decided that the mental stress of paying a giant dress bill from that hard-earned savings just wasnt worth it. I knew how long I had to work for each of those dollars and I couldnt justify spending such a colossal sum on something that really only benefitted me (and only benefitted me slightly more than something much more reasonably priced).

This is the dress I had pictured wearing, but it cost more than all of the cars I had owned at the timeput together! Apparently Olivia Wilde wore it on a red carpet. Obviously this dress did not happen. Look how happy I am trying it on though! You cant have it all sometimes, and thats ok (even on your wedding day).

I ended up buying a much cheaper dress from a discount line by one of the major dress designers. It still wasnt cheap but it wasnt in completely ridiculous territory either. It sure wasnt the dress I had pictured, but I felt lovely in it and it was far more comfortable in the heat than the tulle dress I had wanted. Since I wasnt spending thousands of dollars to have THE dress, I figured I might as well show off the curves Id worked on at the gym. Worth it 🙂

Food at a garden party can be anything from standard BBQ fare to fancy canaps. When selecting food for a garden party, there are a few things to keep in mind:

With these questions in mind, it was easy to select the food for our garden wedding.For post-ceremony appetizers, we went for a farmers market theme. Family friends went to the actual farmers market the day before the wedding and purchased local fruit and vegetables to serve. We also purchased some meat and cheese from the city to serve on charcuterie boards.

This was the easiest for everyone involved, and no one went hungry. Our goal wasnt to create a culinary experience with the appetizers, it was simply to make sure that everyone had some good food to enjoy (and that no one had to spend days making it).

For the dinner, we went pretty informal. Ive been to a lot of weddings, and Im almost always uncomfortable during the formal seated dinner. I dont like being assigned a seat, and I dont like having to wait for my table to be called up. The whole thing just didnt feel like us, and so we decided not to do a formal dinner.

Instead of setting up formal tables with assigned seating, we set up glorified picnic tables for our guests. Dinner was served on an as-requested basis for an hour and a half during the party. Guests were able to take a break from chatting, grab some food, and then get back to the party.

We only had to set up half as many table spots as guests because everyone was eating at different times. We were also able to serve fun food because of the rolling style of the dinner. I was even able to compost the cutlery and put it in my garden. I still smile when I find tiny bits of aspen forks in the garden.

Trying to eat tacos without spilling on myself (not easy on any day). My bridesmaids kept bringing me food because I was forgetting to eat! Photo Courtesy of Lightwell Photo )

What fun food you ask!? WellI LOVE tacos. Theyre my favourite food, so I wanted to have tacos at the wedding. Who doesnt love tacos, right!? It turned out that a couple of our guests might have appreciated a more formal plated meal, but the majority was totally cool with having normal summer outdoor food.

The best part about dinner was that we were able to get our favourite local restaurant to do the catering. There are not really any caterers in our town so we were very lucky to be able to book a restaurant to do the food (there arent many restaurants here either)! The folks from this restaurant were an absolute joy to have at our wedding, and I wouldnt have had it any other way.

My choice to serve tacos was a good lesson that you cant please everyone. Everyone has a different idea of the perfect wedding, so everyone will have a few things about yours that theyd change if they were hosting. If the majority of your guests enjoy the majority of your wedding, and you have fun too, thats something to be very proud of!

Drinks were a very important area of planning for our wedding. The first thing we had to do was to organize a bus shuttle to/from the hotel for guests who were drinking. We were able to rent a bus from the local school districtnot very fancy, but it did the trick and no one had to drive if they didnt want to.

One key decision was not to charge for drinks. A wedding is a party, and if youre going to throw a party, you kind of have to take on everything that goes with that. Id recommend inviting no more guests than you can comfortably afford to host. If you really feel you must invite more guests than you can afford to host, a full-on potluck seems like a more reasonable way to make things work.

We decided to focus on beer and wine rather than offering a full bar, partly out of simplicity and also to keep costs reasonable. We picked 5 local wines (plus a local bubbly!) that our guests could choose from.

My brother gave us a wonderful wedding gift of supplying and dealing with the beer. He ended up filling our entire hot tub with ice and beer, which was hilarious and provided a bit of entertainment.

We did have a mixed feature drink made with vodka served in mason jars, and had a scotch bar later on in the evening, but we saved a ton of time and effort skipping the mixed drinks. We would have had to hire several more bartenders if wed have served mixed drinks.

So what did this all cost? It did cost a lot for a single party. I still do think however that our wedding cost much less than a traditional wedding with 100 guests (plus I like to think we had more fun).

I had been saving, so we were able to pay for everything out of pocket rather than using credit/debt. Taking on debt to pay for a wedding seems like a real bummer of a way to start a marriage, so I did not want to take on debt for this party. I did want to host a memorable event that started off our marriage in a celebratory way, surrounded by friends and family (who were hopefully having a good time too). I tried to balance both while keeping it real.

Heres what it ended up costing. Please note that some small material values are estimated due to my haphazard record-keeping of cold-hard-cash spend at the hardware store and other small local vendors at the time. All values are in Canadian dollars.

Garden Wedding Food & Drink Cost: $6,934.77

Farmers Market Produce: $240 (Local Farmers)

Charcuterie Appetizers: $436.79 (Costco)

Catered BBQ Dinner: $2080.00 (The Brown Derby)

Non-Alcoholic Drinks: $216.89 (Costco)

Wine (including alcohol service): $1300 (Various Wineries, Mainly BC)

Beer (served at same bar as wine): $900 (Okanagan Springs Brewery)

Rental Plates, Glassware, Tablecloths, et cetera: $943.19 (Nor-Val Rentals)

Compostable Cutlery: $89.90 (Aspenware)

Wedding Party Attire Cost: $4600.85

Kyles Suit: $1523. 20 (Brooks Brothers)

My Wedding Dress: $1417.50 (Watters Love Marley)

My Shoes: $78.12 (Nordstrom Toms)

Bridesmaid Dresses: $896.00 (Aritzia)

Bride & Bridesmaid Hair: $413.10 (Shear Kreation)

Garden Wedding Venue Cost: $1220.00

Dance Floor Construction Materials: $470

Church Facility Rental & Service: $350

Backyard Wedding Decor Cost: $2133.20

White Fabric Backdrop: $107.15 (Dressew Supply)

New Plants for the Garden: $300 (Home Depot)

String Lights: $368.67(Amazon Canada)

Sign Materials: $40 (Home Hardware)

Construction Material for Farmers Market Boxes: $35 (Home Hardware)

Bridal Flowers: $561.00 (Hartwood North Organic Farm)

Decor Foliage and Flowers: $695.00 (Hartwood North Organic Farm)

Wedding Paper and E-Goods Cost: $448.12

Wedding Website: $198.05 (Riley & Grey)

Photography and Videography Cost: $3600.00

Photography: $2400 (Lightwell Photo)

Videography: $1200 (Lightwell Photo)

It does seem like a lot to spend on a single party! I do feel that it was the right way for us to start our marriage. We were able to throw a memorable celebration for 100 of our family and friends without going into debt.

We did end up spending some additional money for tips and some odds and ends, but the above should give a pretty good idea of what it costs to host a backyard wedding for 100 guests in small-town Canada. Our plan was to keep it under $25K and that turned out to be a reasonable target.

Friends and family are amazing! Accept their help and thank them over and over.

Yes, it will rain. Even in August. Everything will be fine.

Do your own thing and your day will represent you.

You cant please everyone, but if the majority is happy, things will be fine.

Its ok to host a non-traditional wedding as long as its non-traditional in your own way.

Youll forget what it all costs once its over if youve pre-saved the money.

Arrange a shuttle. Even if its a dorky school bus, it will keep people safe.

Filling your hot tub with ice chunks and bottles may cause permanent damage to it.

Youll live happily ever after 🙂

Are you considering getting married in your backyard? Thinking about hosting a garden wedding?

Mary Jane Duford is a content creator and home gardening expert based in the Okanagan Valley.

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